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Carers and Families - wellbeing and recovery

There are over 6 million carers in the UK, about 1.5 million of whom care for someone with a mental health problem. The impact of caring on families and friends can be very significant, and their own health and wellbeing may be affected. 

The Princess Royal Trust for Carers’ Health Survey in 2004 found that among carers who responded: 

  • 38% reported suffering stress/nervous tension 
  • 28% reported suffering from depression 
  • 27% reported suffering from anxiety

This was in addition to other health problems reported, such as high blood pressure or back injury. (5 Key Facts about mental health carers The Carers Trust) 

If you're a carer, it's important that you think about your health and wellbeing, as well as about the health and wellbeing of the person you care for. Caring can be very rewarding, and can bring positives, but you may need support to get the most out of it, and to maintain your own welllbeing. The 5 ways to welllbeing are:


With the people around you. With family, friends, colleagues and neighbours. At home, work, school or in your local community. You may be part of a faith community, or an interest group. Try the Mental Health Carers Forums in the north of the county or in the south and City Think of these as the cornerstones of your life and invest time in developing them. Building these connections will support and enrich you every day.  You can also visit the Carers in Derbyshire website to find out what is available.

Keep Learning… 

Try something new. Rediscover an old interest. Sign up for that course. Take on a different responsibility at work. Fix a bike. Learn to play an instrument or how to cook your favourite food. Set a challenge you enjoy achieving. Learning new things will make you more confident as well as being fun. Try your local neighbourhood pages to find out about local courses and opportunities that you could access, or if you live in Derby City, contact Creative Carers on 01332 227711. 

Go for a walk or run. Step outside. Cycle. Play a game. Garden. Dance. Exercising makes you feel good. Most importantly, discover a physical activity you enjoy and that suits your level of mobility and fitness. See Derbyshire Sport, or try our Keeping Active Centre

Take Notice… 

Be curious. Catch sight of the beautiful. Remark on the unusual. Notice the changing seasons. Savour the moment, whether you are walking to work, eating lunch or talking to friends. Be aware of the world around you and what you are feeling. Reflecting on your experiences will help you appreciate what matters to you. Find out about Mindfulness for carers or try Mindfulnet

Give … 

Do something nice for a friend, or a stranger. Thank someone. Smile. Volunteer your time. Join a community group. Look out, as well as in. Seeing yourself, and your happiness, as linked to the wider community can be incredibly rewarding and creates connections with the people around you.

For more information...

See our Carers Handbook for more information

See our Infolink Families and Carers Resource Directory for services you can contact

See our 'How to get help card' for families and carers for support in asking for help

Visit the Carers in Derbyshire website

Read the Practical Guide to Healthy Caring published by Public Health England

How Carers can feel - a poem read by Paul Wiggins   

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Recovery is a concept that can be relevant to carers. It recognises that people can be in control of their lives despite mental health problems, and can regain a meaningful life despite a serious mental illness. Components of the process of recovery:

  1. Finding and maintaining hope – believing in oneself; having a sense of personal agency; optimistic about the future;
  2. Re-establishment of a positive identity – finding a new identity which incorporates illness, but retains a core, positive sense of self;
  3. Building a meaningful life – making sense of illness, finding a meaning in life despite illness, engaged in life;
  4. Taking responsibility and control - feeling in control of illness and in control of life. 

(after Andresen, Oades & Caputi, 2003 Making Recovery a Reality, Sainsbury 2008)

Check out ways of managing your own wellbeing in this section

To fulfil these important and challenging roles, family and friends need effective support from services. This support can come in a number of forms and will, of course, need to be tailored to every situation. In IMROC briefing 4: Recovery: a Carers perspective Karen Machin and Julie Repper consider how carers can support recovery for the person they care for, and how they can be supported  Key actions for services include:

  • identifying carers, 
  • tackling stigma and discrimination, 
  • understanding the impact of caring,
  • delivering family interventions, 
  • developing carer peer support, 
  • offering education not therapy 
Courses for Carers

Visit the Carers in Derbyshire website to find out what is available

Dementia Care: Staying Connected and Living Well, A course for Carers

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Derbyshire Mental Health Carers Forums are a self-help group of mental health carers and ex-carers holding forum meetings and support groups at various locations throughout Derbyshire. Click here for North Derbyshire Mental Health Carers Forum  (click here for their leaflet) and South Derbyshire and City Mental Health Carers Forum

Derbyshire Carers Association provides advice and support for carers in Derbyshire

Making Space Dementia Support Service

Registering with your GP as a Carer

Carers Chat online discussion

Find out about a scheme to provide Computers 4 Carers

Learning Disability Carers Community

Derbyshire Befriending Directory

Derbyshire Parent Partnership  Free, confidential, impartial help, advice and support for Parents and Carers of children and young people



Looking after someone: a guide to carers rights & benefits - Carers UK

Quick Guide to Caring from Carers UK

Checklist of questions to ask the psychiatrist

Derby City Council – Looking after Someone advice

Derbyshire County Council – Caring for Someone advice - British Sign Language version of Guide to Carers Services

The Carers Trust provides information for carers, professionals and patients

Human rights guide for carers and cared for

Carers UK

NHS Choices - Carers Direct or ring 0808 802 0202 for free confidential advice and information for carers

Direct.Gov Caring for Someone gives advice and information about carers rights

My rights Your responsibilities - a guide for parents of young disabled people


Tips on coping with mental health in your relationship from Relate 

Money and benefits

Carers Trust have information and advice on money

Free cinema tickets for carers from C.E.A.

Carers Benefits Factsheet


Find out about medicines, side effects, and mental health problems


Nutrition and Caring advice from Carers UK

People with a learning disability 

Derbyshire Learning Disability Carers

Information for Carers. How to help people with Learning Disabillities to keep healthy

Learning Disability Carers Community Support Group on Facebook

People with dementia

Dementia Challengers - information for carers

Making Space Derby City Dementia Service

Alzheimer's Society

Becoming a Carer A booklet about looking after someone with dementia. It explains some of the basic facts about dementia, gives ideas on where you can get practical and emotional support, offers advice on how to plan for the future, and provides some tips on caring for people with dementia

Advice for carers about someone LGB with dementia moving into a care home - from Carers UK

People with psychosis

Mental Healthcare offers information on psychosis for family members and friends

Older people

AGE UK Guide for Carers

Caring for an elderly parent

Families affected by drug use

Adfam supporting families affected by drug use 

Young Carers

Young Carers Net: website and online support service for children and young people under the age of 18, who help to look after someone in their family with an illness, disability, drug/alcohol addiction or mental health problem.


The Triangle of Care 

The six key standards of the Triangle of Care state that:

  1. Carers and the essential role they play are identified at first contact or as soon as possible thereafter.
  2. Staff are ‘carer aware’ and trained in carer engagement strategies.
  3. Policy and practice protocols re: confidentiality and sharing information, are in place.
  4. Defined post(s) responsible for carers are in place.
  5. A carer introduction to the service and staff is available, with a relevant range of information across the care pathway.
  6. A range of carer support services is available.

The Triangle of Care: Carers included is published by the Carers Trust